Whooopsie daisies. I didn't see your post before I posted that last one. Sorry.
I like the "ash blonde".
I always used to bleach my hair but the older I get, the darker blonde I have become AND I hate having to do the roots every couple of months....it is a pain....so I let all the bleach grow out 4 yrs ago but people are telling me to lighten my hair again and the hair dresser said my colouring is "mousy"...no one has ever said I looked like a mouse before so now I am thinking of lightening it.....
I've only got a few grey hairs on my sides so that means I haven't developed any wisdom yet....dayum 
